I have a Problem

I don’t mind relatives at home

But being asked to change my shorts because he has come

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind listening to crap

But being asked to apologize because I don’t agree

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind taking advices

But being asked to take my decisions from them because everyone does

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind being complimented

But being taken for granted because I am a girl

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind getting married and starting a new life

But giving dowry in spite of that

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind religion

But being asked to stay hungry to get a nice man

I have a problem.

 

I don’t mind believing in God

But bowing down to the idol in the temple

I have a problem.

 

All my life at different points of time I am anyways going to experience natural pain for not being pregnant and of course in between suffer pain for being Pregnant and still my male counterpart will be considered to be ‘stronger’ than me. To top that I should dress/speak/walk in a certain way around certain people to save my vagina from being violated because it’ll be my fault if not done so. I have a problem with that.

All ll my life I was/will be expected stay hungry to get something or the other. It started with staying hungry to ‘get’ a good man then staying hungry to retain him and keep him alive! I have a problem with that.

I have a problem with many things. I choose to remain silent for a few things and speak up for the others. The day I, We(Women) start speaking up for everything, it will become impossible for people to adjust with me/us without CHANGE. Change is going to come whether you want it or not. Lets hope it comes swiftly.

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